The First-Generation Student Experience with Emele Cammisa
November 8th is National First Generation Student Day, celebrating the success of first-generation college students, faculty, staff, and alumni. At Chatham, we’re committed to prioritizing the success of our “first gen” students, from SDE 101 courses designed to familiarize students with the Chatham community and connect them with resources, to robust student organizations and campus activities created to foster friendships that can often last a lifetime!
Oftentimes, what helps first-generation students the most is knowing they’re not alone. While every student’s experience is unique, first-gen students can find solidarity and camaraderie in sharing their stories. We interviewed Emele Cammisa about her experience as a first-generation student; check it out below!
What's a challenging aspect about being a first-generation college student?
One challenging thing about being a first-generation college student is having no close adult relative that can really help and understand the process of applying or understanding the life of a college student. I had to figure a lot of things out on my own which was stressful since my parents never went to college. Also, my mother does not speak English as a first language which was also challenging when I needed her help.
Chatham was able to help me address this problem by giving me multiple resources and guidance on the application process. There was also help once I finally arrived here too. I felt great pressure put on me since I am a first generation college student. I wanted to make my parents and grandparents extra proud since I was given the amazing opportunity of higher education when it was not an option for them. There was always help available to me whenever I needed it. If I was struggling and needed someone to talk to, Chatham offered those resources to me.
What's one thing no one told you about the college experience that you wish you'd known
One thing I wish I had known about the college experience is that everyone adjusts differently. In pop culture, college is always seen as a fun and exciting place. And although it is fun and exciting no one ever mentioned the period of missing home and wanting to be with your family. It took me a couple of months to adjust to living independently. However, some of my friends were fine on the second day in. As I mentioned before though, Chatham was able to help me adjust. My professors, friends, and the counseling services offered, helped me get adapted to being on my own.
Editor’s Note: If you’re feeling homesick, lonely, or just need someone to talk to, Chatham has many resources available to you. Check out this guide to our Counseling Center, or try our peer-to-peer support platform TalkCampus, where peers and professionals are available 24/7.
Do you have any advice for other first-generation college students?
My advice for other first-generation college students is to not be afraid to ask for help. People are available for any help and questions you may have. Do not feel embarrassed for reaching out for any extra guidance that your friends who have had family go through college may not need.
Thanks to Emele for sharing her experiences with us! Want to apply to ChathamU but not sure where to start? Check out these next steps from our Admissions team.